“Getting to the top one step at a time!” (12.2.2020)


Haven’t I always said, Patricia Bokowski, knock and it will be opened? Prepare and the way shall be revealed? Speak and all the elements will obey? Act and I will, too? Laugh and be healed? Give and the floodgates will open? Wink and you’ll be winked at? Dream and thy Kingdom will come? 
Oh… Well, that’s what I meant to say. 
Wink,   The Universe
/ Getting to the top one step at a time!


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Getting to the top one step at a time!



YOU HAVE to start.

So, all the people waiting for the right time.

And, you know who you are.

Waiting for whatever they are creating, to be perfect.👈👈👈

Better yet, life to be perfect.

It’s like waiting for everything to be perfect to be happy!

Not going to happen!👈👈👈

How can I be above it all?

I don’t know how many bloggers I’ve spoken with over the years.

Who have told me it takes them a long time to publish a blog.

You might ask why?

Because they refuse to hit the PUBLISH button.👈👈👈

They want another day to edit their blog.

Obsess over it.

Redo it.

Make sure it’s absolutely perfect (no such thing).

And then they wonder why they aren’t getting great results?

How can I be above it all?

Same goes for people who post on social media.

They hem and haw over each post.

I don’t want to get off topic here.

But the amount of boring posts I see on social media is staggering.

Bad shots.

Too many words.

Posts that having nothing to do with nothing.

That’s why I started doing Social Media Consulting.

Because people asked me to help them out.

So I help business owners and entrepreneurs make better posts.

Ok, back to the subject.

How can I be above it all?

Life isn’t perfect.

So, you make it as good as it can be.

And go from there👈👈👈

It is a constant struggle.

Only, far too many people refuse to do that.

Instead, they stay stuck.

Stuck in whatever happened in their life.

So, there is no telling these people to make it work.

They have already given up.

Not me though.

I work at it everyday!👈👈👈

As I like to tell people.

I’m totally winging it everyday!

How can I be above it all?

Now I say it to myself everyday!

Whenever I start feeling anxious or overwhelmed.

If life has shown me anything, it’s anything is possible.

Opportunities really are all around us.

Think, now is the time to shift your thinking.

Anything is possible.

Align your thoughts.

Next, align your thinking.👈👈👈

Now take action!

And as you start thinking differently.

You will see the world from a whole different perspective.

Getting to the top one step at a time!

“Never give in – never, never, never, never, in nothing great or small, large or petty, never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense.  Never yield to force; never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy!”

Winston Churchill

How can I be above it all?

That’s it.

Every damn day👈👈👈

Surround yourself with people who will LIFT YOU UP.


Surround yourself with people who believe in YOU!  👈👈👈

People who will encourage you.

People who will support your vision.

Those who have your back and want nothing but the best for you!

How do you find these people you might ask?


They somehow always manage to find you.

Getting to the top one step at a time!

How can I be above it all?

Kind of like love <3

And if you don’t have those people in your life right now.

Don’t be afraid to go it alone.

And, don’t be afraid to like it 👉👉👉

How do YOU get to the top!

One day at a time!

Getting to the top one step at a time!

How can I be above it all?

Let me ask you a question?

How many times a day do you tell yourself that you are:








wildly potent


living your best life (even if you are not)



big dreamer

and so on and on…

Better yet.

How many times a day does someone in your life say that to YOU👈👈👈

How can I be above it all?

So, if you aren’t?

Start now.


On your path to AMAZING!

You need to continually tell yourself.

How wonderful you are.

Even if inside you aren’t feeling it.

You start to convince yourself.

And eventually, you start believing.

Believing that YOU are worthy of great things.

Worthy of it ALL!

Getting to the top one step at a time!

How can I be above it all?


The next time you catch yourself saying something not so nice about yourself.



Your brain and body hears everything you say about yourself.


Start saying nice things.

Uplifting things.

Things you would say to a good friend.

You wouldn’t tell a good friend:

You need to do better.

You have fat thighs.

You are not smart.

Why do you keep making mistakes.


Getting to the top on step at a time!

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO – NineFrogs

You would say:

You’re doing GREAT!

I believe in you!

You can do it!

You are gorgeous AF👈👈👈

I love how you do life!


Be like that!

And do it everyday!


That’s how you do it!

You just do it.

Stop waiting for the perfect time.

You want to follow your passion?

Follow it!

Stop asking for permission.👈👈👈

Stop asking if it’s a good idea?

If YOU think it’s a good idea.

Then YOU need to follow it!

I hear people talking all the time about how they want to make changes.

My advice to them.


Getting to the top one step at a time!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Getting to the top one step at a time!”



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