“Get out there!” (5.7.19)

Patricia Bokowski, I hope you’re loving your life. And I do mean really, really loving your life. 
Because right now there are so many others who are (loving your life). In time and space, and in the unseen.
No, not all of them will admit it, but I know these things, and one day you’ll know them, too. 
Big hug,  The Universe
/ “Get out there!”


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Get out there!

Yes, you!

Get out THERE!

And, how do you do that you ask?


You work at it everyday!

Even, on the days.

You don’t feel like it.

On the days.

You’d rather be doing.

A hundred other things.

THAT’S how.


Of course.

Add in.

An attitude of:

‘I am going to do this.

Even if it kills me’.


Like that!

But, you HAVE to make sure.

You are getting OUT THERE.

As much as possible.

In whatever way you can.

Because, as I have said countless time.

Out There Is Where The Miracles Find YOU👈👈👈

Let me ask you?

How do YOU define success?


What would it feel like to you?

See, the thing is.

Success is different for everyone!


What success looks like to me.

Could be totally different for you.

And, that’s okay.

As long as you get there!

People often ask me?

How do I get the confidence I need.

To do the things.

I want to do?

That’s easy.

I just do it.


I don’t even think about it.


That’s what you do.

When you are pursuing.

Your dreams.


The longer you do it.

The easier it becomes.

These days.

I have no problem talking to anyone.


Me, these days.

It’s called a one-way trip to success.

No matter how long.

It’s going to take me.

To get to where I want to be.

That’s the kind of mindset.

You need to have.

To get to the top!

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Surround yourself with people.

On the same mission as you. 👈👈👈

It is vital to your growth.

To have these kind of people in your life.

People who have your back.

Who support your dream.

People who will encourage you.

And give you ideas.

Who aren’t jealous of you.

But, who want to see you.

Get to the top!

Believe you can and you you’re half-way there!

I’ve said it a million times.

It’s a mindset.


You need to make sure.

Your MIND is SET.

To the right position.

The position of success.

The position of ‘I can do it!”

The position of ‘I can move mountains!”

The position of ‘Nothing is going to get in my way!’

Yeah, like that!

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

It’s all in the way you think!👈👈👈

I know I sound.

Like a broken record.

But, that’s because.

This is so f*cking important.

That’s why I always say:


No matter the circumstance.

Change your way of thinking.

To a positive mindset.

That says: “I will win, no matter what I have to do!” 👈👈👈

No matter what!🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

That way.

Your brain starts thinking of ways.

For you to actually succeed.

And win!

When I first started my business back in 2012.

I started networking.

Which I had never done before.

When I was in the corporate world.

For me.

I had to get used to saying “I am an Image Consultant and Personal Shopper”.

When people asked me what I did.

It felt weird saying it.

Like I was pretending.

But you know what?

After saying it ten times or so.

It started seeping in.

After a while of networking.

I became known as “that Frog lady” or, “that Personal Shopper lady.”

(Hey, as long as they remember you).

Networking really is a great way to meet people.

So, if you’ve never gone to one.

Find one this week and GO!🏃‍♀️

Don’t do this!!! EVER!!!

Dress Your Best!


I realize times have changed.



Please don’t walk around in your pj’s.

Or, your gym clothes.


If you want to get to the top.

You need to not only look the part.


You need to ‘feel’ it as well.


That also doesn’t mean.

You need to spend a fortune.

On a new wardrobe.

You can look like a million bucks.

With clothes.

From a thrift shop.

It’s called ‘creativity’.

Have you heard?

I’m writing a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated release date: Spring/Summer 2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos up now on TikTok & YouTube!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

Get out there!



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