“Get it right!” (11.7.2021)

When you can be happy “without,” Patricia Bokowski, it gets easier to bring it about.
Care less,  The Universe / Get it right! / www.tut.com
Yes, care Patricia Bokowski, care a lot, but not so much that even an ounce of your happiness might hang in the balance.
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Get it right!

Audrey Hepburn had it right!

Happy girls are the prettiest 🙂

And that goes for Happy boys as well!


As far as I’m concerned.

There are far too many people unhappy people.

Don’t believe me?

Next time you’re out and about.

Start noticing.

I see it every time I go to 7-11. 

People who have given up.

You can see it in their faces ;-(

That’s one of the reasons I write my blogs.

To inspire people 🙂


Here’s something you need to understand:

Stop waiting for life to be perfect to be happy! 👈👈👈

Because THAT my friends is never going to happen!

Just look at Hollywood.

All those adorable couples.

That we all thought were SO HAPPY!

We all thought they had it made!

Who knew?

They are just as miserable as us.

Get it right!

We need to normalize.

The fact.

That you can be happy.

And not have your sh*t together.


I hear so many people.

With so many excuse.

NOT to be happy.

Like, “Patti, with what’s going on in the world.

How can I be happy?”

I’ve said this many times before.

The world has always had sh*t happening.

Just look at history.

Do you think your great-grandparents weren’t happy?

Get it right!


Here’s a little nugget on the benefits of being happy.

It makes you think better!


Absolutely true!

It’s extremely hard to think “better” when you’re unhappy.

Don’t believe me?

Next time you aren’t happy.

Try solving a problem, successfully.

Absolute proven fact.


Maybe not a proven scientific fact.

But, you get my point!

When you are happy.

You absolutely “think” better!

Which puts you.

In a much better situation.

To solve any problems that come your way.


The benefits of being ‘happy’ .

Far out way, NOT being happy!

So, choose happiness.

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Want to be really happy?

Take risks.

Push yourself.

Come out of your comfort zone.

See what you’re made of!

If it works out YOU WON👈👈👈

And if it doesn’t, you learned a lesson!

Another reason are so unhappy.

They keep doing the same sh*t.

Day in.


Day out.

Be creative.

Try something new!

Get it right!

All roads that lead to happiness.

May not look like the road you thought?

Which again.

Is why you need to take chances on happiness.

Ever meet someone new.

And you click immediately!

Yet, you say to yourself.

This person is so NOT my type.

Guess what?

Give it a try.

Because you never know.

Ever offered a great opportunity?

Something you never would have thought of?

And yet.

It is brought to you.

On a whim.

And were unsure if you should take it?

Take it👈👈👈

If there is a slight bit of chance it’s going to make you happy.

Choose it!

Get it right!

Want to be happy?

Smile 🙂


You knew I was going to say it 🙂


Every person you see today.

Give ’em a big ole smile. 

Whether you feel like it or not!👈👈👈

And I don’t care if you have to fake it.

So it anyway.

The sheer act of smiling.

Will make you happy(ier). 


Once you see everyone smiling back.

It will make you happy.

It’s like a whole catch 22 thing going on.

Get it right!

Remember how Robin Williams.

Made us laugh.

And not just a little.

He made us laugh ALOT!


Because he knew.

He knew how it felt NOT to not be happy.


Little did we know.

He was fighting his own demons

But that didn’t stop him.

He put everything in his power to entertain us.

And he did it so beautifully.

A perfect example.

Of how you can be happy.

Even when your life.

Isn’t perfect!

Get it right!

I’ve told this story before.

I call it my deli story.👈👈👈

It was a hot summer day.

And I went to get some cold cuts at the deli counter of my local grocery store. 

I recognized the guy behind the counter.

And gave him a little smile 😉

He looked at me like his dog had died.

He looked REALLY sad ;-(

I asked him how his day was going.

And he answered ‘miserable.’

Me being me.

I was like.

I have to get this guy smiling.

So, I gave him my order and we got to talking:

Me:  Half pound of American Cheese please?

Him:  What kind, Boars Head or the one on sale?

Me:  Well, I don’t know, you’re the expert here, you pick 😉

Him:  (He started to crack a little smile), you’re right, I am the expert here…

By the time he was done with my order he was smiling.

As I was about to walk away, I said to him:

“I hope the rest of your day gets better”.

He looked at me and said:

‘it already is”.

That’s what I’m talking about👈👈👈

Get it right!

Little Buddha


So many people forget that.

You have the power.

If someone is being a negative-nelly to you.

Have them removed.

If there is a situation that bothers you.

Fix it.


Get out of it.

There is no one.


No thing.

Worth your happiness.



That’s a BIG one.

I read recently that:

If you are driving your Mercedes to a job you hate.


Remember that!

Get it right!


I’m going to say it.

One more time!

Do not put the keys to your happiness in someone else’s pocket.

So important!


We’ve all been there.

And if your like me.

You learned the hard way.

The really hard way.

Which is why I say.

Never again.

Don’t do it!

Get it right!

Something else that makes me happy!

In case you hadn’t heard.

I’m writing my first book.


It seems to be taking a lot longer.

Than I had thought.

Anticipated Release Date: ASAP

Stay tuned for further updates!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

That’s a wrap.

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Get it right!”



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