“Finding your Happy Place!” (6.1.19)

In all my years as the Universe, Patricia Bokowski, never once have I asked for anything in return of anyone, anywhere, ever. 
And I think that’s a pretty good policy, no matter who I am. Donโ€™t you?
Tallyho,  The Universe / Finding your happy place!


Why would I, Patricia Bokowski? I am my own well. Like you.

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Finding your happy place!

Just yesterday I was reading an article on LinkedIn on this very subject!

Most people are looking for happiness in all the wrong places.

And then wonder why they still aren’t happy ;-(

The thing is.

What you are looking for isn’t OUT THERE.

It’s inside you.

Like that!

Hereโ€™s my advice:

STOP WAITING FOR HAPPINESS to show up at your front door!


And while you’re at it.

Stop waiting for everything to be perfect to be happy.

Because it’s never going to happen.

Like never.


It’s kind of like.

Waiting for a good time to have a baby.


There never is.

You just do it!

Same thing with finding your happiness.

Kermit the Frog๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ

You deserve to be happy now!

And it all starts with you!

This isn’t a dress rehearsal, this is your life!

This is your ONE shot.

And YOU deserve to be living it happy!

Like, really happy ๐Ÿ˜‰

No person, thing OR event, is going to make you happy!

If you aren’t happy already.

Stop looking outside yourself.

You make YOU happy.๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

It is a total inside job.

Yes, YOU!

Here’s where so many people get it wrong.

Other people can ADD to your happiness.  

But, if you are looking for someone else to make you happy.

You are setting yourself up for a huge disappointment.  ;-(


And as far as all the other โ€œthingsโ€ that people think will make them happy.

You should give up on that dream as well.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Because the minute you start waiting for YOUR happiness based on any external thing.

You’re doomed!

now or never quote

Like when I hear people say things like;


I’ll be happy when:

I lose weight.”

(OMG, that’s a huge one).

How about you be happy with the body you now have?

AND then you lose weight?

If you are starting off HATING your body.

You will have little success in losing weight.

Huge difference.

The list then goes on like this;

A new job,

That new boyfriend/girlfriend,

I want a house!

Where’s my new car?

The list goes on and on…

My favorite:

When I have a no problems.

Someone please tell me in what universe this is?

And so on and so on….

Again, โ€œthings and peopleโ€ can add to your happiness.

But they canโ€™t make you happy!

Iโ€™ve experienced this first hand.

My ex-husband was the worst.

Always putting off his happiness!

Waiting for some Magical Unicorn Rainbow to happen.

And then he’d be happy.๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿฆ„

Needless to say, that never happened!๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

Which also explains why he is my EX-husband!

I firmly believe.

That the reason there as so many unhappy people in this world today. ย 


Lack of self-confidence.

Next time you go to your local coffee shop.

Take a look around at all the faces.

See how many are happy?

We have so many people looking for happiness in all the wrong places.

They need to start with themselves first.  ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Make yourself happy.

And then see what happens!๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

People ask me often.

What makes me happy?

(and where does that pretty smile come from?)โ€ฆ?

My answer: doing the things I want, with the people I want.

And working in my business (best decision I ever made)!


Ask me if my life is perfect?

My answer would be, my life is far from perfect.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

I have problems just like everyone else.

Only, when I wake up in the morning.

I decide I AM GOING TO BE HAPPY despite my problems.

Quite honestly.

I don’t even think about it.


Am I going to be happy today?

No I don’t.

I just wake up and start my day.

Of course.

A nice cup of hot tea helps me get going.

And that makes me happy!

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Besides which.

When you are in a state of ‘happiness’.

You are in a far better state of mind to solve your problems.

When you are in a state of ‘unhappiness’.

Your brain is not going to function at it’s very best,.

Thus, not much use to you in solving your problems ;-(


Am I happy?


And I know someone out there will say:

‘well Patti, we all can’t be happy everyday.


But you can be most days.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

You should stop waiting for the Unicorn of Happiness to come riding into you life๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿฆ„

And become your own Unicorn of Happiness!


Watch how your life changes for the better๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

I actually think Kermit the Frog said thatโ˜โ˜โ˜

And most of all.










Put the keys to your happiness in someone else’s pockets.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

That was another lesson I had to learn the hard way.




I am telling you.

You are setting yourself up for a huge let-down.

It is YOUR happiness, and no one else’s. NineFrogs Daily โ€œQUOTE OF THE DAY!โ€:

YOU SO DESERVE IT โค https://www.ninefrogs.com

Just know, I am rooting for you and your happiness ๐Ÿ˜‰

Finding your happy place๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

UPDATE: I am writing a book.

My very first!

It’s titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated Release Date: 10.31.2021

Stay Tuned For More Updates!

Patricia D. Bokowski / CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Lastly, make sure to follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming real soon!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

Finding your happy place!”



One Response

  1. Robyn June 12, 2019

Leave a Reply

ten − seven =

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.