“Do you need a hand?” (2.12.2020)

A philosophical journey from here to there…
Patricia Bokowski, do you think that if ten million dollars were to be suddenly deposited into your checking account, that over the following months and years you’d have fewer and fewer challenges? Or do you think, perhaps, that your challenges would simply evolve and change? 
Right, evolve and change. 
And do you think that with your extra $10 million, you’d gradually be presented with more and more opportunities to be happy? Or do you think, perhaps, that your opportunities would simply evolve and change? 
Right, evolve and change. 
Now, doesn’t that answer everything? 
Beeb, beeb –   The Universe
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Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs

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Do you need a hand?

Why do I ask? Because.

I know it’s hard!

There, I said it.

And what am I talking about?

I’m talking about starting.

Yes, starting instead of talking.

Oh, people love to talk.

“Patti, I’m going to do this.”

“Patti, I’m going to do that.”

“Patti, wait till you see what I’m doing.”


Then the next time I see them.

I ask how their ‘project’ is going.

And then I usually get a look.

And then some answer like:

“Yeah, I didn’t start yet.”

“I know I keep saying, but it’s not a good time now.”

“Patti, I knew you were going to ask me that.”

So here’s the thing.

Just start.

Like, just start.


Just start.

I know it’s a big decision.

But if you want to your life.

It’s a decision you need to make.

In order to stop living.

The same day over and over.

And call it a life.

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Not you.

You are not willing.

To live a mediocre life.

So, I am telling you.

If you want to live a BIGGER life.

You need to be prepared.

To do:

BIGGER things!

And I know.

Bigger things are scary.

But I promise you.

If you really want to.

You can do it.

If you want BIG results.

Be prepared to make BIG moves.

Like BIG.

And let me remind you.

It is just as easy.

To make BIG moves.

As it is to make little moves.

It all comes down to your mindset!

So ask yourself?

Do I have a success mindset?

Do I think I can do BIG things?

Am I prepared?

To do whatever it takes.

To get there?

Do you need a hand?

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So let me ask you?

Are you done?

Completely finished!

With accepting what life hands you?

Only instead.

You are ready.

To do the work.

That is necessary.

To live that BIG life!

See, that’s the difference!

The difference between people.

Who complain about their lives.

But, do nothing to change it.

It takes major b*lls.

To make big changes.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And a whole lot of confidence.

But, just take a look.

At all the really successful people out there.

What’s the one thing they ALL have in common?

They were willing to do BIG things.

To get them from here to there!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

They say.

That people who had to endure.

The hardest hardships in life.

Are the kindest.

And that’s because.

They know what it’s like.

To being mistreated.

So, in turn.

They want to help as many people.

As they can.

So that they don’t have.

To endure the same things they did!

I really liken it to.

A butterfly with bullet holes.

A beautifully flawed human being.

Sounds about rightπŸ¦‹πŸ¦‹πŸ¦‹


What does it take to be a BIG success?

As far as I can tell.

I really believe it comes down.

To one thing:

Not quitting.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


It’s the person that says:

Ok, I’ll try one more time.

Only, they say that at least 98739274 more times.

Until they get it right.

I was listening to this guy.

Talk yesterday on his podcast.

And he was saying.

90% of people who start a business.

Quit within five years.


Because they couldn’t see any results.

And so.

If they can’t see any results.

They throw in the proverbial towel.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Don’t be that guy!


I know I keep.

Saying this over and over.

But, that’s because it’s so important.

You plant seeds everydayπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

You water them.

You tend to them.

Maybe no one else can see.

Actually, they most likely can’t.

What you’re doing.

But, you can see what you are doing.


You just have to keep doing it.

Even if everyone around you.

Thinks your crazy.

Do you know how many people.

Must think I’m crazy? NineFrogs Daily β€œQUOTE OF THE DAY!”:

Do you see me stopping?

And, I’ve been doing this more years than I could have ever imagined!

Trust me.

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Not everyone will have the heart you have.

Not everyone will appreciate you and what you do for them.

Sometimes, it won’t be easy having a kind heart in a cruel world.

Be prepared.”

Tony Gaskins <3

It’s your path.

Your journey.

No one can tell you.

What road to choose?

Not even me.

This life is all up to you.

For you to choose.

What you want to get out of it?

What adventures do you want to have?

What kind of people do you want to meet?

What kind of success are you looking for?

Because, the answer is different.

For everyone!

I know it’s hard!

Isn’t that the truth!

Over the years.

I have run into both types.

People LOVE to tell you.

That YOU can’t do something.

Like, how do they know?

They aren’t you?

They don’t know what you are capable of?

They don’t know what’s in your heart?

They don’t know the sacrifices you have made?

They don’t know what you’ve been through?

And, they most certainly don’t know.

What drives your passion?

Only YOU know that answer!

Do you need a hand?

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That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

“Do you need a hand?”



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