“Do this, don’t do that!” (4.13.16)

So much more awaits you, Patricia Bokowski.
There’ll come a day when you look back at where you’ve been and where you now are and call these your “warm-up years.”
You’re so cute,  The Universe / “Do this, don’t do that!” / www.tut.com
Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Do this, don’t do that!

Let’s see?

Ask yourself.

What would you do?

If you weren’t afraid.

Of all those things.

You’ve been wanting to do.

And.

You actually did them?

How do you think that would make you feel?

Amazing I’m sure.

To conquer your demons.

You know.

The ones that tell you.

It’s not going to work.

That you can’t DO IT.👈👈👈

That you don’t have what it takes.

That.

You’re not a winner!

That.

You don’t have enough ________ (fill in the blank).

Don’t listen to them.

You so have what it takes!

Do this, don’t do that!

NineFrogs 🐸🐸🐸

aka fROG cONSULTANT

Isn’t that the truth!

We all know those people.

That just suck all the goodness.

Right from you.

Personally, I have this issue often.

See, I am a beacon of positivity. 

And other people can feel it!

And usually.

It’s the people WHO Don’t have it.

Who want it.

So.

When they feel it in someone who has it.

They WANT it!

Do this, don’t do that!

Some years back.

A therapist actually told me.

She said:

‘Patti, you have an abundance of something.

That other people are missing.

Who DON’T have what you have.

Who will be very attracted to you.

Only, those are the people.

You need to stay far away from. 

Because they won’t be bringing anything TO YOU.

And.

They will be taking everything they can from you.’

And damn.

She was right!

Unfortunately for me.

I did not heed her morning.

No.

I did not.

And, in the process.

Got burned not once.

Oh no.

Twice.

After #2.

I woke the F up!

Like, bigtime.

And in the process

Had to let some people go.

I learned the hard way.

These days.

I keep my circle small.

Like, very small.

If someone wants to be part of my life.

I do it with caution.

If someone wants to be in my life.

I need to see what they bring to the table.

That goes for both friends and lovers.

Do this, don’t do that!

Don’t let anyone.

Tell you.

That YOU can’t do something.

YOU can do anything.

That you are willing to work for.

If you truly want to move mountains.

You will move them.

Do this, don’t do that!

Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

Want to make a difference?

Be a beacon of positivity!

See.

The more you give.

The more you receive. 

That’s how the universe works. 

You know that thing called “The Secret.”

It gives back to you.

What you give out. 

If you are giving out:

Kindness, generosity, and happiness.

Then, that is what you will get back.

Needless to say, the opposite works as well.

Behaving badly towards others.

WILL came to you.

Maybe not today.

Tomorrow or next month.

In other words.

You just never know.

When Karma will come knocking on your door.

Do this, don’t do that!

Here’s a life hack.

I wanted to share with you guys.

Don’t be jealous or envious of others.

If something wonderful happens.

To someone you know.

Be genuinely happy for them.

Send out happy thoughts.

Which in turn will come back to you!

If I’m jealous or envious of someone.

Then I’m blocking all the good stuff.

That should come back to me.

So, what happens with those negative vibes?

They have a boomerang affect.

And will come right back at you!

So, keep it positive!

For instance.

When a friend invites me over to their beautiful new house.

I don’t say to myself, ‘damn, I wish I had a house like this.’

Although, there would be nothing wrong.

With ‘wanting’ a big beautiful house.

My thought process is this:

I say to myself,

‘I am so glad that I have friends.

Who lovingly invite me over to their big beautiful new house.’

See? 

Putting positive thoughts.

And energy.

Into The Universe.

So that it will come back to me!

Do this, don’t do that!

I want to tell you something.

Something, that many of you.

May not realize.

We are all.

In one way or another.

Damaged.

Yes.

No matter who you are.

No matter where you come from.

We are all damaged.

In way or another.

Some more than others.

But damaged, doesn’t mean broken.

It just means.

We managed to keep going.

Damaged or not!

Here’s my personal.

Feelings on success.

“My success is not tied to anyone or anything.”

And neither is yours.

You are given this life to do amazing things.

Things that others only wished.

They had the courage to do.

Even if they don’t tell you.

Which they won’t!

So, what are you going to do?

Have you heard?

I’m writing a book.

My first.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated release date: Summer 2002!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow me on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – Subscribe to my YouTube Channel and follow me on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“Do this, don’t do that!”

www.ninefrogs.com

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