“Did I think of it?” (1.2.17)

Rainbows and butterflies, cattails and dandelions, waterfalls and rainforests, puppy dogs and dragonflies, sea foam and orcas, sunshine and comets, snowflakes and icicles, wildflowers and Patricia Bokowski Bokowski… 
Did I think of everything, or what? 
Crazy, sexy, cool, 
  The Universe / Did I think of it?


“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – Kermit the Frog


Did I think of it?

Are you waiting for the “perfect” time?

You know?

To start!

Or, are you waiting for life to be perfect first?


Let me know if that ever happens?

I don’t know how many bloggers I’ve spoken with over the years.

Who have told me it takes them a long time to publish a blog.

Why you might ask?

Because they refuse to hit the PUBLISH button.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

They want another day to edit their blog.

Obsess over it.

Redo it.

Make sure it’s absolutely perfect (no such thing).

And then they wonder why they aren’t getting great results?

Same goes for people who post on social media.

They hem and haw over each post.

And in the end.

By the time they actually put up the post.

It’s not very good anyway.

I don’t want to get off topic here.

But, people, you really need to up your social media game.

Everyday, I see posts with:

Way too many words.

Boring content.

Blurry pictures.

Too ‘salesy”.

Make no f*cking sense.

You get where I’m going.

Posts that having nothing to do with nothing.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

What should we do?


Life isn’t perfect.

You make it as good as it can be.

And go from there๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

It is a constant struggle.

Only, far too many people refuse to do that.

Instead, they stay stuck.

Stuck in whatever happened in their life.

So, there is no telling these people to make it work.

They have already given up.

Not me though.

I work at it everyday!๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

As I like to tell people, I’m totally winging it everyday!

What should we do?


The definition of insanity is doing the same thing every day and expecting different results.

Yet, that’s what so many people do!

That’s why you have to get out of your comfort zone and do something different.

Recently, I started on TikTok.

Talk about coming out of my comfort zone!

But, I did it.

Practice makes perfect.

Actually, practice makes you better, not perfect!

So when people ask me: “Patti, what should I do?”

I say, whatever it is the keeps you up at night.

Do that!

“If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get that you’ve always got.”


How many opportunities do you think there are on any given day?

The answer is, an abundance of opportunities!

So I ask, are you looking?  

And not just with your eyes, but with your mind, heart and body.

There are times.

We are so focused on what others are doing.

That we don’t see the opportunities right in front of us!

And then there are times.

When we have to make our own opportunities.

It is our responsibility to find the key to open the door to get us to where we want to be. 

Don’t be afraid to jump out of your comfort zone to get there!

What should I do?

And if by chance, someone else gets a golden opportunity, don’t be bitter, resentful, angry or sad.  

Be Happy for them ;-)๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Because when you are happy for them.

You send out positive energy into the Universe and then that will come back to you!  

On a daily basis, and I know that’s easier said then done some days.

TRY and put out as much positive energy as you can.

Because, just like everything else you put out.

Everything comes back to you!

And you want as much goodness as you can coming back your way!

What should I do?


 Recently I read a little something on Oprah’s Instagram page, it went like this:

‘I am smart.  I am blessed.  I can do anything!”

I love that <3

What should I do?

Now I say it to myself everyday!

Whenever I start feeling anxious or overwhelmed.

If life has shown me anything, it’s anything is possible.

Opportunities really are all around us.

Think, now is the time to shift your thinking.

Anything is possible.

Align your thoughts.

Next, align your thinking.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Now take action!

And as you start thinking differently.

You will see the world from a whole different perspective.

What should I do?

I don’t know about you, but I am totally thrilled about all the new possibilities!  

So, what can you do different now? 

It doesn’t have to be some major life change.

You can start out small, like driving a new way to work.

Or, getting your coffee from a different place in the morning.

Take a walk on a different place.

Driving a different way to work.

The possibilities are endless ๐Ÿ˜‰

So you ask…

Where is my life going?


Did I think of it?

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos coming soon!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!


“Did I think of it?”