“Dear James!” (1.16.2021)

Patricia Bokowski, what wouldn’t you give to live, love, and be happy, deliriously happy, forevermore? 
Well, that’s just it, you needn’t give anything, Patricia Bokowski. Just decide to live, love, and be happy, deliriously happy, from this moment forward. 
And I shall provide,   The Universe / “Dear James!”


Patricia D. Bokowski – CEO & Founder – NineFrogs

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Dear James!

Change is coming!

Like it or not.


Because that’s the way life works.


Life changes.

In an instant.

Do you ever think about that?

How things happen in life?

Like, if one thing hadn’t happened.

Then something else wouldn’t have happened!

For me.

No doubt.

It was my career ending with Cablevision.

I had been there roughly 20+ years.

And then one day, I wasn’t.

Just like that.

So, when that happens.

You have two choices.

Curl up in a ball.

And hibernate for the rest of your life.


You can start a new life.

Because, that’s exactly what I did!

I started a brand new life.

Started my own business.

And I’ve never been happier.

“Find what you love and let it kill you.” – Charles Bukowski

That’s the kind of attitude you to have.

To make those BIG dreams come true.

For me.

Looking back.

Not knowing what the hell.

I was doing back then when I first started.

Just knowing.



I didn’t give up.

Has it been hard?



On those days.

I always remember this quote by Maya Angelou:

“All storms run out of rain.”

“Do things for people.

Not because of who they are, or what they do in return.

But because of who you are.”

– Harold S. Kushner

“Why are you so determined to keep your wild silently inside you?

Let it breathe.

Give it a voice.

Let it roll out of you on the wide open waves.

Set it free.”

Kermit the Frog 🐸🐸🐸

“When you ask The Universe to go to the next level,

don’t be surprised when every person preventing progress

is removed from you life.” – Anonymous

And I have found.

That’s how you get.

A ‘seat’ at the table.


That’s where you find your power.

You don’t find your power.

When you are surrounded by people.

You find it.

By being alone.

“Being along has a power very few people can handle.” – Steven Aitchison

Leap of Faith!

That’s what you need.

Starting out.

A GIANT Leap of Faith.

But I think.

What it really comes down to.

Is a total belief in yourself.

And what you are capable of doing.

And here’s the thing.

Most people.

Totally underestimate.

What they can do.

Trust me.

I look at all the thing’s.

I’ve done over the years.

And I amaze myself.


“Everything you want is on the other side of fear.” – Kermit the Frog 🐸🐸🐸

“Maybe we are here to love wildly, passionately and fearlessly.” whispered the heart.

“You are going to get us all killed!” yelled the brain.”

Kermit the Frog 🐸🐸🐸

That’s something you learn early on.

In the game.

First off.

Never chase.



Chasing anything.

Will get you no where fast.

Don’t spend your precious time.


How much fun can that be?


I have learned.

To make my own opportunities.

Don’t ever let anyone tell you.

That YOU.

Can’t do something.

God knows.

There’s been plenty of people.

Who have told me\.

Over the years.

That I couldn’t do this.

That or the other thing.

And I just smile.

And do it anyway!

“Be so good, they can’t ignore you!” – Steve Martin

Here’s a little something.

I wanted to share:

Fun facts about Nora Ephron:

She directed, produced and wrote 15 Hollywood movies;

Including romantic comedy classics such as;

“When Harry Met Sally,” “Sleepless in Seattle.” and “You’ve got mail.”

She helped turn Meg Ryan into a world-wide star.


She started her career as a humorous essayist.

Next time someone tells you.

You can’t do something.

Think of Nora!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

“One day it just clicks.

You realize what’s important and what isn’t.

You learn to care less.

About what other people think.

Of you.

And more about what you think of yourself.

You realize how far you’ve come.

And you remember.

When you thought things were such a mess.

That you would never recover.

And you smile.

You smile.

Because you are truly proud of yourself.

And the person you’ve fought to become.”Author Unknown

One thing I have learned.

Over the years.

Is this:


You must be constantly learning.


If you want to be successful?

And who doesn’t?

You seriously.

Need to be learning.

Every day!

You need to be one it.


For me.

On any given day.

I would say.

I am on:


Google News


Easily ten times a day.

At least.


There is SO much information.

To be had.

That’s how you stay relevant.

That’s how you! NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:

Rise to the next level.


Lastly, have you heard?

I’m writing a book!

My first.

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”

Anticipated Release Date: Summer 2022!

I cannot wait for you guys to read it!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den – New videos up now on TikTok!

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ “People will stare. Make it worth their while!”

“Dear James!”



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