“Can it be?” (8.23.16)

“What if everything that’s happened so far, Patricia Bokowski, was just practice for when things get really, really good!
Really, really soon!
   The Universe / “Can it be?”

“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Can it be?
You know how it goes?
All this waiting.
For Summer.
For Friday.
Or, the day you have no problems.
Yeah, like that’s ever going to happen.
Stop waiting for some mystical time.
Called “A good time.”
There is no such thing.
If there is something you want to do.
Just do it!

Not tomorrow.

Not next week.

Not, when things get better.


Can it be?

If Wonder Woman were here.

She would tell you the same thing.

Because she knows.

Life is fleeting.

So, stop saying ‘tomorrow’.

People love that.

Saying how unhappy they are.


They keep putting off their happiness.


They are waiting for someone or something.

To make them happy.


That’s NOT how it works.

YOU make YOU happy πŸ™‚


These are the excuses I hear:

“When I fall in love again!”❀❀❀

“I’ll be happy when I’m out of debt.”

“When I get a new job.”

“I’ll be happy when I lose weight.”

That is a big one.

And a total waste of time.

The list goes on and on!

Here’s my advice:


Seriously, be happy now!

No person.

And no thing.

This is going.

To make you happy!

Only YOU can make YOU happy!

Can it be?

Other people can ADD to your happiness.

But trust me.

If you aren’t really happy.

No one else can MAKE YOU happy πŸ˜‰

Can it be?

Do you want to be happy?

Give up all the sh*t that weighs you down.

You know.

All the sh*t that we put upon ourselves.

The things we’ve been holding onto.

For far too long.

Let it ALL go.


Don’t be surprised.

If you find yourself.

Feeling light as a feather!

Can it be?

The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸



Stop looking for someone else to make you happy.“You have two choices!” (7.4.2021)


You are setting yourself up for a huge disappointment.

You need to be your own best friend first.


As far as all the other “things”.

That people think will make them happy.

You should give up on that dream.

Life does not have to be perfect.

In order for you to be happy.

As a matter of fact.

Who’s life is perfect anyway?

No one I know.


I know a lot of people.

Like a lot.

And not one of them.

Has a perfect life.

Even very wealthy people.

Have problems.

So stop putting off your happiness.

And stop waiting for Friday.

While you’re at it!

As if that isn’t the truth!

Most great things.

Are preceded by chaos.

And once again.

Don’t lose your happiness in there.

No matter what is going on in your life.

Keep your mindset.

Fixed on happiness.


That doesn’t mean you walk.

Around all day with a big smile.

On your face.

It’s a mindset thing.

Work on that!

That makes me happy!

Knowing that even if I don’t have.

A seat at the table.

I’ll bring my own share.


That kind of mindset.

That makes me very happy.

Knowing my worth.

Knowing my power.

Knowing I’m in charge of my destiny.


Once you have that mindset.

Nobody bothers you anymore.

It’s like a superpower.


So many people want it.

And they should.


That’s where true happiness comes.

Can it be?

Have you heard?

I wrote a book!

Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!” – A Whistleblower’s Tale of Lies, Deceit & Betrayal!

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That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

“Can it be?”


1027 St. Johnland Road, Kings Park, NY 11754


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