“Build me up!” (1.22.18)

The next time life tosses you a multiples choice test, Patricia Bokowski, remember… 

The more time you give it, the more choices you’ll have. 

There’ll always be more than one right answer. And, 

Waiting for divine intervention is almost never a good idea. 

Poised for greatness,
   The Universe / Build me up!
“Stop asking people who have never been where you are going for directions.” – NineFrogs

Never be scared of anyone or anything!

When you have the right attitude, that’s a no-brainer!

Keep it positive.

Keep it happy.

And always, keep the right mindset!

I was out shopping the other day and I over-heard a conversation between two women.

Apparently, hadn’t seen in each other in a while and were catching up…

It went something like this:

Woman 1 – so how are you doing?  everything going good?

Woman 2 – oh, you know…I’m tired, I feel like I can never catch up, blah, blah, blah

Woman 1 – I know, the older I get, the harder everything seems.  Some days I find it hard to do anything!

Woman 2 – I know exactly how you feel.  Just getting dressed and combing my hair is an effort these days.

Woman 1 – It just doesn’t seem fair does it?

Woman 2 – Exactly, life just seems to be getting more complicated and harder, I just can’t deal with it.

Let’s face it.

Life is hard.

And it’s very easy to have a bad attitude about it.

But, and listen to me good when I say it: Having a bad attitude will get you nowhere in life.

Like, NOWHERE😣😣😣


The tag line for my business is:  Where Attitude is Everything!

There’s a reason for that, having a great attitude is what you need in life to not only survive, but to strive!

And yet, so many people just don’t get that. 

I hear soooo many people complain, about just about everything.  And it’s people of all ages. πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

That’s life people! 

You either conquer it, or it will conquer you!

Is it easy?  Not always. 🧐🧐🧐

Some days it is a struggle.  Fortunately, those days are few and far between.

That’s why it is so important to have a positive attitude, even in the face of adversity.

Or should I say, especially in the face of adversity.πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

That positive attitude is what can help you get through the worst of days.


Having the right attitude shines right through you.

People can feel it.πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

It fuels your energy, and as we all know, your energy is contagious.  

You become a magnet for people who want what you have. ✨✨✨

I for one, get this all the time, as I possess a positive attitude and a high amount of energy, add in my smile ;-)…you got it,

I’m a magnet!

I was having dinner with a friend over this past holiday, and they asked me, how do you keep such a positive attitude?

That’s easy I said, before I get out of bed in the morning, I think of all the things in my life to be grateful for.πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

The things that I now have,.

Things that I had always wished for.πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

Then, I think about all the things I need to accomplish when I wake up.

And since I have my own business, that list is endless.

Once I’m up, I don’t stop!

Cuddle time is over.

Rise and shine.

I love that.

And so true.

I’ll be the first to admit I’m not one of those early riser kind of people.

Me, always looking perpetually tired πŸ˜‰

It takes me a while to get going and get out of bed (although I do start working before I get out of bed, and I know that’s a BIG no no.)

But, once I do get out of bed, I’m on.

I will offer you a little tid bit that helps me on those days when I literally feel no ambition to get out of bed.

I give myself three things to do.

That’s it.  Three things.

Something like this:

Take a shower.

Put on your makeup.

Get dressed.

And by the time I’ve done all three, I’m already crankin for the day!

It’s all in your ATTITUDE!


A positive attitude works miracles in your life (I’m written about this in several of my blogs).https://www.ninefrogs.com

When you possess a positive attitude, it helps you live your life on a different level.

A level most don’t get to.

It also helps bring about serendipities you never thought possible!❀❀❀

Henry Ford had it right!

Always think YOU CAN

You never know where it will take you!

Build me up!

Lastly, make sure you follow NineFrogs on TikTok & YouTube – The Frog’s Den 🐸🐸🐸

That’s a wrap!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!

Dare to dream. And while you’re it. Dream big.